We are in an industry that communicates, often persuasive in nature. Our work strives to bring across a message and our client pays us to do that most efficiently, which often translates to sales for them.
But I am more interested in the communication skills of the individual. This is an especially essential skill all Account Servicing personnel should cultivate. What I am about to say is not about communication through writing. That could possibly be a topic for a future post. No, I am wanting to talk about communication when we meet another, or a group of individuals, like during client briefing or when we are brainstorming with the client.
First, let me define communication. It is the process of transferring information between a sender and a receiver through verbal and nonverbal cues. It is the mechanism we use to establish and modify relationships.
So, what are the essentials?
1. Develop effective Listening Skills
Listening is all about comprehension. Seek to understand and not just remember the words spoken. Comprehension allows you to hear the meaning and intention of the speaker and not just the words. It will allow you to ask the right questions if your comprehension is lacking. And never interrupt the person speaking by trying to finish what the other party is saying. That is rude and will affect the other person's flow of thought.
2. Don't be afraid to Say What You Think
Be confident in making worthwhile contributions to a conversation. Note the word "worthwhile". Don't just babble but ensure your contributions add value to the subject. Take time to be aware of your opinions and feelings so that you can adequately convey them to others.
3. Talk with Conviction, not Emotion
You can add weight to what you say when it is driven with belief. You have to believe what you say. That is why selling someone else's work is never convincing. Take ownership of the topic you are talking about and it will come across as genuine. Emotions can cloud the message. You become the focus and not what you are saying. In business conversations, emotion is best kept in check.
4. Engage your Audience
Make eye contact. Whether you are speaking or listening, looking into the eyes of the person make the interaction more successful. Eye contact also shows your attention and confidence in dealing with the person. And use gestures when you talk. That includes your hands and face. Smaller gestures when with individuals and small groups. Larger gestures when addressing large groups for better emphasis. This animation helps keep your audience engaged.
5. Watch your Body Language
Body language can sometimes say much more than words. Nervous habits needs to be addressed. Arms crossed can suggest disinterest or unwillingness to communicate. Don't slouch or hunch as it shows you are bored. Good posture and a relaxed stance helps put the person at ease.
6. Be Positive and Constructive
The attitudes you bring to communication will have a big impact on the results. When you interact with others, you can excite your audience with positive belief in what you say. Choose to be honest, optimistic, sincere but respectful and patient at all times. Be sensitive to other people's feelings and believe in other people's competence. Do not fall into the trap of always being suspicious and see the worst in others.
7. Learn to Articulate your Words
Speak clearly and don't mumble. If people are asking you to repeat yourself, you are probably speaking too fast or too soft. Speak at the right volume depending on the size of the crowd and the room. Pronounce your words correctly. People judge your competency through your vocabulary. If you are not sure of a word, don't use it. Nervous people tend to speak fast. Slow down and keep eye contact to see if you are understood and adjust your speed and volume appropriately.
Okay, I think these are basic communication essentials and remember, practise makes perfect. After a presentation or a meeting with clients, ask your colleagues or superiors for some feedback on how you did. Appreciate honest feedback and don't be defensive. It will help you iron out your communication creases and make you a better communicator the next time around.



